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5 Steps to a Better Career
Figure
out what you're good at
Each one of us has a unique combination of
strengths, skills, and talents. But because it's hard to view
ourselves objectively, we often have many more marketable
qualities than we give ourselves credit for.
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5 Questions You Should Ask Every Customer
Constantly
seeking feedback from your customers is a great way to
learn how to market your business more effectively.
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50 Ways to Get Your Life in Order
Unexpected challenges are what make us stronger, so don’t
avoid them. Keep in mind the following 50 tips and you’ll be
able to streamline your life and get back on track.
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5 Ways to Protect Your Most Essential
Commodity
Not too
long ago I was at a leadership conference where one of the
keynotes talked about protecting the entrepreneurs’ greatest commodity – our
energy. Suzanne’s key comment was “how you spend your energy
is how you measure your success.”
Boy did that strike a cord!
Why? Because every entrepreneur I know at some point
on their ascent to success has to take a look at how they have used (or
abused) their most vital lifeline – their energy.
Think about it. As an entrepreneur we are
everything to our company. We are the creative spark, the
leader, the manager, the product fulfiller, the customer service rep,
the sales and marketing team (you get the point, right?) The one thing
that keeps us going is our energy. What do we do if our energy is gone?
Let’s take a look at Sue. Sue has been going
non-stop for months. She sleeps about 4 hours a night, has 15 – 20
crises a day, and truly believes that every single idea she has is a
million-dollars waiting to happen. So every idea must be completed
yesterday. Sue’s husband and friends haven’t seen her in weeks. She
can’t possibly slow down for food, let alone a social event.
One day Sue finds herself feeling a bit sluggish.
Pushing through it (I mean she is a super-hero after all, what’s a
little tiredness) she finds herself two weeks later with a little cold.
The cold turns into a chronic illness that takes over her life and takes
down her momentum. Confused, frustrated and overwhelmed, Sue finds that
she can barely get up to eat, let alone accomplish any work.
Now this may sound a bit extreme – but is it
really? I don’t think so. I can’t tell you how many people I know
who have literally been drop-kicked out of the game because their energy
gave out. They got sick, tired, and depleted. (Yes, I admit, me too.)
So how do we protect this most vital commodity that
is so precious? Here are a few ideas.
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Always take care of yourself first. No matter
what. No excuses. Workout at the gym, eat healthy, meditate, have
down time, or get a massage once a month. You must take care of
yourself. It’s a lot less expensive to invest in your energy when
you are healthy than if you are sick.
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Don’t Try to Do Everything Alone. It’s
exhausting. It’s overwhelming. And any successful person will tell
you it’s impossible. Figure out a way to start delegating and
getting support. Learn to apply the golden delegation rule of
“opportunity cost.” If you can’t do it well and it costs
someone else less to do it, outsource it!
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Learn to Say No. Oh this one is SO hard for most
of us. You have to say no sometimes in order to support the
“greater yes.” That means, in order to achieve our goals we have
to say no to other people’s requests sometimes. It’s OK; you
will still be loved and needed if you can’t do it all.
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Know what’s Important. And even more
critically, what’s not. If it doesn’t fit with your passion,
values and goals, don’t do it. No matter what. Someone else will
do it and everything will be just fine.
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Release Tolerations. Tolerations
are the things you put up with. Incomplete decisions, negative
people, broken items, unresolved issues, etc. Tolerations can be
HUGE energy drains, especially when it goes on and on. Make a plan
to handle the tolerations in your life.
One example of how I protect my energy:
After I give a presentation or attend a long conference, I always book a
day or two off from the office. I’ll usually get a massage. I’ll use
the time to put into action the nuggets from the event. If I skip it, I
find I’m completely loopy and exhausted and worthless to my clients.
In Suzanne’s keynote presentation, she wrapped up
by saying “get a sense of humor.” I couldn’t agree more. The world
is only as frustrating as we see it. When we go through life with a
sense of humor, we can find the thread of joy in any situation. I found
in my own life that infusing every situation with laughter could always
take the stress away.
Life is too short to waste our most precious
commodity. Protect your energy and you will see how your success
multiplies. Deplete it and you will see your success shrink.
The choice is yours. I hope you chose to be good to yourself.
Melanie Benson Strick, The
Entrepreneur's Success Coach, teaches entrepreneurs how to stop feeling
overwhelmed so they can create more money, more freedom and more
prestige.Co-author of Visionary Women Inspiring the World: 12 Paths
to Personal Power and contributing author to Entrepreneurial
Spirits , Melanie is co-creator of
The Unstoppable Goals Method: How To Turn Your Ideas into Income in
90 Days. If you are ready to experience a breakthrough in your business,
sign up for a 25-minute personalized “Business Breakthrough” by emailing
us at
assist@successconnections.com.
Success Connections
Melanie Benson Strick
14320 Ventura Blvd., #222
Sherman Oaks, CA 91423
Telephone: (877)
830-3139
info@successconnections.com

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