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5 Steps to a Better Career
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out what you're good at
Each one of us has a unique combination of
strengths, skills, and talents. But because it's hard to view
ourselves objectively, we often have many more marketable
qualities than we give ourselves credit for.
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5 Questions You Should Ask Every Customer
Constantly
seeking feedback from your customers is a great way to
learn how to market your business more effectively.
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50 Ways to Get Your Life in Order
Unexpected challenges are what make us stronger, so don’t
avoid them. Keep in mind the following 50 tips and you’ll be
able to streamline your life and get back on track.
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7 Mental
Strength Questions for Changing Your Life
I love questions! The really powerful ones should stop a
person in their tracks and make think and ponder. By this, I
mean those questions should have the power to change your
life, not like the basic questions, i.e. "What's your
favorite color?"
The problem these days we don't take the time to use our
imagination and look ahead at what could be. We're too busy
looking at the current situation and "what is". The problem
with this is if we never look ahead we will always get "what
is", which most of us are not happy with!
So what's a person to do?
I would strongly suggest that you either print this article,
or at least write these following questions on a blank piece
of paper. These questions presume that you have a strong
desire to
change something in your life.
1. What do you want? (target)
2. Where are you now?
3. What steps are needed to get you there? (goals)
4. Why now?
5. Who will I have to be to get there?
6. When I get there...then what?
7. What do I want to keep the same (in my life)?
I know, these questions may seem simplistic at first, but as
a good friend of mine, T. Harv Ever says, "Most people don't
get what they want, because they don't know what they want."
This first question is probably the most powerful, if
answered correctly.
To answer the first and third question I recommend the
SMARTER goal method. This takes the SMART goal method and
adds a twist.
Specific
- A specific goal has a much greater chance of being
accomplished than a general goal. To set a specific goal you
must answer the six "W" questions:
• Who: Who is involved?
• What: What do I want to accomplish?
• Where: Identify a location.
• When: Establish a time frame.
• Which: Identify requirements and constraints.
• Why: Specific reasons, purpose or benefits of
accomplishing the goal.
Measurable
- Establish concrete criteria for measuring progress toward
the attainment of each goal you set. When you measure your
progress, you stay on track, reach your target dates, and
experience the exhilaration of achievement that spurs you on
to continued effort required to reach your goal.
To determine if your goal is measurable, ask questions such
as......How much? How many? How will I know when it is
accomplished?
Attainable
- When you identify goals that are most important to you,
you begin to figure out ways you can make them come true.
You develop the attitudes, abilities, skills, and financial
capacity to reach them. You begin seeing previously
overlooked opportunities to bring yourself closer to the
achievement of your goals.
You can attain most any goal you set when you plan your
steps wisely and establish a time frame that allows you to
carry out those steps. Goals that may have seemed far away
and out of reach eventually move closer and become
attainable, not because your goals shrink, but because you
grow and expand to match them. When you list your goals you
build your self-image. You see yourself as worthy of these
goals, and develop the traits and personality that allow you
to possess them.
Realistic
- To be realistic, a goal must represent an objective toward
which you are both willing and able to work. A goal can be
both high and realistic; you are the only one who can decide
just how high your goal should be. But be sure that every
goal represents substantial progress. A high goal is
frequently easier to reach than a low one because a low goal
exerts low motivational force. Some of the hardest jobs you
ever accomplished actually seem easy simply because they
were a labor of love.
Your goal is probably realistic if you truly believe that it
can be accomplished. Additional ways to know if your goal is
realistic is to determine if you have accomplished anything
similar in the past or ask yourself what conditions would
have to exist to accomplish this goal.
Tangible
- A goal is tangible when you can experience it with one of
the senses, that is, taste, touch, smell, sight or hearing.
When your goal is tangible, or when you tie an tangible goal
to a intangible goal, you have a better chance of making it
specific and measurable and thus attainable.
Intangible goals are your goals for the internal changes
required to reach more tangible goals. They are the
personality characteristics and the behavior patterns you
must develop to pave the way to success in your career or
for reaching some other long-term goal. Since intangible
goals are vital for improving your effectiveness, give close
attention to tangible ways for measuring them.
Evaluate
- Your goals are not set in stone and will change from time
to time. Constant evaluation of your goals is essential to
reaching your goals. Change factors must be taken into
consideration during your evaluation. Factors such as change
in volunteer status, change in family or job
responsibilities, or change in available resources may
affect your stated goals.
Re-do
- After a careful evaluation then you should re-do the goals
that need changing and continue the SMARTER goal setting
process.
Goal development and goal setting is process that changes
and needs evaluation. The process of developing, initiating
and following through on the SMARTER goals setting model is
cyclical and should be continually worked on. As a sectional
staff member, your personal and organizational goals should
be examined critically at least once a year.
You'll notice that I classify "what you want" as the target
and your action steps as your goal. Here's why. You desire,
what you want to change is a fix point, that is a target. In
order to get there you must take action, and most likely
massive action.
So, how to hold yourself accountable for these actions?
That's where the goals come in. The goals are the actions
you take in order to progress towards your target. For
example, if you wanted to release 10 lbs of fat (that would
be your target) your goal would be to reduce your caloric
intake by 500 calories per day and increase your output
(exercise) by 500 calories per day.
As long as you hit your goals, your target automatically
gets closer to you. DO you see the power in this?
By using these 7 mental strength questions and by applying
the SMARTER target process you'll be able to make
magnificent changes in any part of your life.
About the Author:
Gregg Swanson is a mental strength coach and
owner of Warrior Mind Coach and Training. To receive a
complimentary copy of his e-book "Powerful Secrets to
Creating The Mind Strength of a Warrior" please visit:
http://warriormindcoach.com

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